This one goes out to all you single guys out there. You may feel a bit lonely, especially now during the holidays, but you — being single — are now perfectly poised to have a spring to remember. By a spring to remember I mean a spring in which you are juggling like 5-6 women at a time.
The way to do this is to start planting the seeds now, in December. The first thing you should be doing is locating women you are attracted to who are working in public places, in bars, in restaurants, in stores, etc. Places that you can visit regularly. When you find such a place, make an effort to visit the establishment when she is working at least once a week. In these short visits (10 mins tops), you should just make some small talk with her, make a joke or two and then leave. (Note: if you are in relatively small college, you can just rely on the fact that you will see a number of these women regularly, and work from there.) Make it obvious you like her, but don’t ask her out or ask for her number (it will set you apart from every other guy who hits on her). If you can find 5-6 women in your area that you can do this kind of thing with over the next few months, come springtime (starting late February, depending where you live) chances are that most of these women will be thinking about you when their springtime horniness kicks in. And that’s when you can easily ask them out, get their number etc. Remember, spring is mating season for all life on earth. In her animal mind, you will be a laid back, familiar, and safe male in her vicinity. These are key traits to most women and her instinct will direct her increased sexual energy in that direction. You will be in a prime position to bang every one of these women when spring hits, usually during the same week. Some, during the same day. Also, remember that springtime is sort of an open enrollment period for women. It is the time of the year they are most likely to jump from one man to another. So don’t let mere talk of boyfriends/husbands discourage your visits.
But what if she really has a boyfriend or husband? What then?
I get this question a lot. I get it often because you will find that most desirable women seem to already have boyfriends and/or husbands. And many women just reflexively say they have one when they really don’t. This can be very discouraging to the single guy. It’s like all the good ones are taken.
It only makes sense that most hot women would have a boyfriend. Most desirable women are being pursued by several men at a time at all times in her life between the ages of 13-60. Most hot women will usually have some guy in the “boyfriend” slot even if she isn’t thrilled about that guy. Also, remember that a woman’s beauty is directly related to how often (and how well) that woman is getting laid. The more she gets laid (and the more she orgasms), the hotter she will be. So keep that in mind when you see a hot chick. Unless she is very young, you are likely seeing a chick that has been getting good sex regularly. Ah, but while the sex preserves her beauty, it is never enough to keep her heart in check. Most women need much more from a man than just good sex.
But is it wrong to still pursue a woman after she tells you she has a boyfriend/husband?
This is thorny question, but it deserves an answer. It is a question that involves making a moral judgement. It depends on the relationship she really has with that boyfriend/husband. You’ve got to use your judgment here and you can’t be selfish when you do. In some cases, the boyfriend/husband really is all wrong for her and it just takes her hanging (and yes, cheating) with someone much cooler like you for her to realize that. In that case, my friend, all’s fair in love and war. Why? Because you’re sincerely trying to take the boyfriend/husband’s place and you know you would be better for her than he would. On the other hand, if you sense that she is really in love with her boyfriend/husband (and he’s probably good for her), and you know you just want to get laid, I don’t advise that you try to get her to casually cheat with you. If you do that, you just may ruin a good relationship for a few fleeting ejaculations. The universe will certainly punish you for that kind of selfishness, usually by having a dude do the exact same thing to you down the road. Trust me, that kind of karma is a bitch and very real. I know firsthand.
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