This is perhaps THE MOST important thing a guy can remember, especially when he is on a first date with a woman. But it holds true even in long-term relationships.
What the expression means is that you (the man) should be escalating the sexual progression as far as you are willing to go all the way up until she says “no” or “stop” and never before that. Because how you react to the “no” from her is the key to reeling her in and it’s also the key to keeping her interest later. If you act cool and laugh about it when she tells you no, she’s potentially yours forever. On the other hand, if you act pissed off and spiteful when she denies a sexual advance from you, you will drive her away, maybe for good.
A lot of men choose the more subtle approach by avoiding the “no” from her at all costs. For a lot of men, a “no” from the lips of a woman on a date kills their buzz and depresses them. I completely understand that. I used to feel the same way. In fact, I used to pride myself on being able to read a woman’s mind and go right up to her boundary and then stop right before she said no. I would NOT make the ho say no. I really thought I was slick. I thought I was leaving her wanting more. But in actual fact I was just an expert pussy driving her away.
When you don’t go as far as she is willing to go sexually in a given situation and you don’t “make the ho say no,” she will consider you a pussy and get LESS attracted to you. That’s basically an immutable LAW of man-woman relations. Women get the feeling of wanting more AFTER they say no and never before. Why? Because women get turned on mainly by men who act ballsy. So women really can’t stand men who are sexually timid. That’s a woman’s job.
So burn this motto into your brain: “Make the ho say no.”
Let HER throw down the barrier as you run headlong into it. Then you can be the charming, non-flustered gentleman who responds, “I do apologize madam, I’m afraid I got carried away with your great beauty. Could you ever forgive me?” Play your cards just right after the “no” and it can often turn into a “yes” as little as 15 minutes into your apologetic gallantry. It’s her final test to see if you’re an alpha. And this test gives the true alpha male a bigger hard-on (and a bigger nut in the end).
Beta males, on the other hand, will get angry or awkward with the woman after she puts on the breaks. On a first date, the rest of the date after the “no” will be a passive-aggressive shit-show with tension that you can cut with a knife. There will not be a second date. In a relationship, beta males expect their girlfriends (or wives) to give them sex whenever they demand it. These idiots don’t understand that a girlfriend (or wife) MUST say no to her boyfriend (or husband) every now and then. This keeps the relationship alive and keeps it from devolving into a slavish burden of fake orgasms and half-staff hard-ons.
Getting his advances refused makes the man desire the woman more and helps deepen the attraction he feels for her. This is a good thing at any point in a relationship. I keeps the man on his toes and keeps him from taking her for granted. It also allows the woman to see how the man handles rejection. For women, that is the be all end all of a man. That is the main question in her mind. How does he handle rejection? For most men it’s not a pretty picture. These beta fools will throw a fit or pout. Some of these losers even beg for sex if you can believe it. Some real losers will actually accuse their girlfriends of cheating. And there is no more surefire way to make your woman cheat on you than to do that in response to a rejection. That is some lame shit, bro. And yet that is what most men on this earth actually do. It’s pretty sad.
It’s also important to realize that a big reason your woman is not telling you “yes” enough when you want sex is likely due to the fact that you haven’t impressed her lately. Remember that women need be impressed continually. Yes, even wives of 50 years. A woman’s admiration for her man has to be renewed regularly or she just naturally loses sexual interest in him. Sure, the love will always be there. But the lust will be gone.
So get some shit going for yourself and keep it going. Make some money or make something great. Make a great piece of art, a website, or whatever. Do something that is impressive to your peers. Remember that, while you (as a man) get turned on because of her ass and breasts, a woman gets turned on because of her man’s accomplishments. Use rejection from women to motivate yourself to fulfill your potential. Rejection from women is a true gift to an alpha male in this way. It generates industry. Without rejection from women, even alpha men males would contribute very little to the progress of our society.
Take a good hard look at yourself. What are you doing with your life that would make her want to bang you whenever you feel like it?? Ask yourself that. Are you just sitting around playing video games waiting for her to come home from work to sit on your dick? If so, that’s not very impressive is it? Get the picture?