When you find yourself in the presence of a beautiful woman (and this includes ANY WOMAN in your life, BTW, from your Mother to your wife to your grocery bagger… They are ALL beautiful women in their own way, because they are women), never use that time to become the crying baby that wants his mommy to comfort him. And this rule pretty much goes for EVERYONE you talk to. Leave the gloom and doom predictions to those who get paid to pollute our air and minds with artificial anxiety based on their imagined, dire future nightmares. Nobody’s paying you to be nightmare-teller!
Don’t forget the very important:
RULE 23: Don’t complain to your woman about ANYTHING.
Every woman knows that the world sucks and we’re all fucked. She gets it very much and she doesn’t need to hear about it from you, who is probably after all, just a dumber version of her. She wants to FORGET ALL ABOUT THE WORLD when she’s with you. You’re supposed to transport her to a fantasy fun realm of pure happiness, pure abandon, and endless laughter. You’re supposed to remain the cheery and wisecracking hero in an action movie.
Close your eyes and think of your greatest score to date right now. Put yourself mentally back there. Picture it as best and as clearly as you can how it was from your point of view. Remember EXACTLY how it all felt to you then. Remember how your whole body felt.
Now hold that thought-picture and feeling in your mind for at least 15 uninterrupted seconds. Try it. Use a stopwatch to measure this. Don’t think of anything else but that score for 15 uninterrupted seconds.
You may notice the first few times you try to do this that you won’t be able to even go 15 seconds without your mind wandering onto some other thing. Usually, you will notice that your mind will wander onto things that makes you feel worse or that generally hurt your self-esteem (some past humiliation or some fear of future misfortune). More
This is perhaps THE MOST important thing a guy can remember, especially when he is on a first date with a woman. But it holds true even in long-term relationships.
What the expression means is that you (the man) should be escalating the sexual progression as far as you are willing to go all the way up until she says “no” or “stop” and never before that. Because how you react to the “no” from her is the key to reeling her in and it’s also the key to keeping her interest later. If you act cool and laugh about it when she tells you no, she’s potentially yours forever. On the other hand, if you act pissed off and spiteful when she denies a sexual advance from you, you will drive her away, maybe for good.
1. Always talk less than she does. Especially on the first date or first encounter, but this basically holds for throughout the relationship.
2. Breathe deeply — all the time, but really make sure you are breathing deeply on the first date or first encounter. This compliments #1 nicely. You won’t be witty and fun when you do talk unless you have plenty of oxygen going into your brain. Check on your breathing throughout the day whenever you stop and think about something complex (because that’s when most people stop breathing). Learn about the right way to breathe and how to do it (expanding your stomach not your chest on the inhale). There are many books on this subject. I use a machine Logan from the Future gave me. It shows you what a real deep breath looks like on a screen.
3. Never TRY to be funny when you’re out with a woman. You will come off like an attention-starved clown who’s trying too hard. Just be your normal, serious, relaxed self. Let your humor just come out naturally when something genuinely amuses YOU in the moment — DO NOT FORCE IT. This is the side your closest friends see; it’s why they truly like you. And she will like that person much better than the forced clown most dudes become when trying to be funny for a chick. More
What creates a cool guy? This is important because this is the ONLY kind of guy that can ACTUALLY control a woman. Make no mistake. Women, especially hot ones, WANT to be taken control of by a COOL GUY, and no other kind of guy will do, not rich, not famous, not ANY OTHER KIND OF GUY. And I’m not talking about a bondage type thing or anything illegal, you criminal minded nut! All I’m saying is that women want to a certain extent to be swept off their feet by that super cool guy. They want to be led somewhere they haven’t been, with you, the coolest guy, as a guide and, yes, her Master. But that’s getting into the the May 15th tip. I’m getting ahead of myself. First things first. How does a guy get to be cool in the first place?
The answer is that a guy gets to be cool by being a total geek for a significant portion of his life and then suddenly finding out that what he did during geekdom actually made him cool now. See Bill Gates and practically every geek from your high school, depending on how old you are now. More
Right now is when you should begin.
Every time you see a hot woman, within 3 seconds, ask her some basic question. “Does this train stop at X?” It doesn’t matter what it is, but it should NOT be anything about her. Nothing that sounds like a pick up line. With just her answer to this one questions, a certain percentage of these women will let you know through their subtle or not so subtle ways that they would probably bang you. Believe me; you will see it, sometimes not until way later. You’ll know you did when you kick yourself later for not following up on it. But it’s good you did not. More
Keep your hunger up, let it mack for you…
Sexual hunger is what drives a man to jump through all the hoops necessary to bed a women. It can often, when tapped into, be all he needs to basically hypnotize a woman by letting it trigger her own deep, unsatisfied sexual hunger. This hunger parallels almost exactly with the hunger for food felt by the dolphin performing double flips at Sea World. Think about it. If we had two dolphin-performers and we gave one of those dolphins 100 pounds of fish prior to the Sea World Show, which dolphin do you think would do a better job at the show? Stop feeding your dolphin, dude. Next Tip Coming Up: The Sexual State
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As a response to the recent shooting tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary School, Mike discusses how teaching macking to the losers out there is the ONLY real way to work for WORLD PEACE!! You want an end to all this violence?? No need to ban guns. Just teach some game!! LISTEN HERE!!